But Who Am I?

A pen name, nom de plume, or literary double, a pseudonym adopted by an author… Fantasia Lillith isn’t my real name but it is a name.
Women have for too long been led to believe that there is immense shame in feelings of erotica, of sensuality and are told to “protect” their virtue. For some reason, they are made to believe their value decreases with the “giving out” of their sexual being. Like a car that has too many miles. For shame. I prefer to see it as an athlete or musician getting better the more practice is had. *chuckle*
Perhaps my own need to find erotica that would please my feminine senses pushed me to do this, or perhaps I am just finally embracing my own femme fatal, my inner vixen.
One could even say that this was a blog started out of frustration. I wanted classy, alive and elegant writing and there is precious little out there. Go ahead and look. The vulgar dominates the genre. Whatever the reason, this is what I enjoy doing.
Note: If you are looking to preach puritanical or religious morals, are under the age of 18, or you are easily offended…. if you are searching for under age sex, cruelty, rape, bestiality or any such thing then I strongly suggest that you move on. You will not find that here nor a sympathetic ear.
Enjoy…. deep breath, smell the fragrance, taste the flavors, read the words, let me take you on a journey …. it’s positively sensual!
These are my bedtime stories for you … just a little Pillow Talk.





I love your site. Keep it up !
Deep Blue “O” is an excellent read…I enjoyed it.
Nice to read you!
A
Thank you for dropping in and leaving a note!
Nice to read you as well!
Feel free to browse the pages …. and critique away.
Wow! Thanks so much for visiting my site. It gave me the opportunity to see yours. I love it!
Mutual enjoyment is a beautiful thing indeed. Whenever you need to get away … drop in and share a thought!
What you liked … and why … I always welcome constructive criticism.
Read you soon!
I wanted to thank you for the comment you left on my poem today.
I had a very close freind who made a name for herself writing erotica online several years ago. I don’t know that I ever really understood womens fasination with erotica until I met her. We even collaberated on some poetry, perhaps that’s where I got my “sensuality” for erotic poetry.
I seldom write erotica straight out, but I do attempt to write romanticly, sensually insinuative poetry. Perhaps I’m the last romantic but I do prefer the tease, the subliminal seduction that I can achieve with a poem.
I think it is rare for a man to simply understand erotica for what a woman does, I consider myself one of the lucky few. Still I seldom read it myself. That is not to say that I think you aren’t an excellent writer, I browsed your work you express yourself very well. But it is to say it makes me blush. lol
Although I’m really not as mocest as you might think.
I wanted to thank you for the comment you left on my poem today. Intimacy. That poem means a lot to me. It was for someone very special.
I hope you will continue to follow my work.
Be well and safe.
Unfortunately my friend… She wasn’t.
Thank you for your message, and taking the time to read some of my work. Although I do not consider it work. I think erotica is to women what porn might be to men. We simply are not wired the same way and thus – do prefer a story, and less crude language. We need for passion, romance and raw sex to tumble between the sheets. A happy threesome indeed. And Fantasy … oh what promise there is in Fantasy.
I really enjoyed “intimacy”. Your rythm was lovely .. Keep writing your beautiful words.
Glad that you found me, and now I’ve found you. I’m very much enjoying your work.
Now, as for choosing an ending, why not write one yourself?
Hello! yes … I would love to give it a try … I don’t think my style and yours are even close … but I am game.
I went to your site and in the maze could not find it … assisstance pls? Come back any time!
I have two blogs! The other is dychat.. http://dychat.wordpress.com/ where you commented recently…
Nice to meet you. I’ve been known to flirt with erotic prose myself and it is a delicate art. Again, Happy Eostra to you,
Kiersty
Excellent…Great writing my Dear Lady
Shall return to read more
nice work.. my girl and I enjoyed it, its a great starter to more physical fun.. besos!
Your reasons for writing erotica (as described above) resonated deeply with me.
Thank you for visiting my site. I liked your comment, and was touched that you took the time.
I like what I see here, a lot, and I will be back. I’m linking you — linking back is entirely your choice and decision.
Kisses,
Sapphire — Elegant Slut
Why I do it is the #1 question I get – there is more on that in my FAQ section. I am very flattered that you would link back … thank you so much. Absolutely will do too. I hope you will visit often and grace the comment section with you Elegance …
Thank you for the visit to my site and the wonderful comment. I’ve linked my site to yours.
Thank you!! Hopefully we will mutually visit and find inspiration, prose and fun in the process.
Nice photo!!
Thank you … a good friend took it. I love the composition and lighting.
smiling
… and what has brought a smile to your face friend?
oh..just your use of words…
I may have to tune in to this site!
insidejamarifox welcome welcome!! anytime! hope you find something you like or at least of interest! If nothing else I am told it makes for good conversation among friends or as an icebreaker!
I hope your inner vixen is jumping naked with success.
Well I must be doing something right because I’m not exactly rich. Certainly not monetarily.
i have to make more time to read your erotic tales
…very nice and arousing…
Welcome anytime!! Glad you found this all to your liking. Feel free to tell me what you liked (or not) and why!
Hey very nice blog!! Man .. Beautiful .. Amazing .. I will bookmark your blog and take the feeds also…
Cripes – what have I found here? Makes my ribald tales look a little tame!
Let me put it to you this way. There’s a reason for the existence of a multitude of ice cream flavors. You may well have stumbled upon some dark, rich, spiced, Mayan Chocolate ice cream here (self flattery will get me everywhere) – but there are times we crave Rocky Road or some Tooty Nolan! The name alone has me in stitches!
Variety is the spice of life – non?
I’m so happy that you left a message on my blog so that I found you as well… love erotica, its a great artform and of course arousing as well (and since I read your interview, I won’t be sending a picture of my cock to you
)…
You may laugh but you’d be surprised! Welcome to my blog – may you drop in and linger from time to time.
Many do not see it as art … but we know better.
but of course it’s art… everything is art really, it’s just the way people look at it. Love erotic comics for instance and just the artwork on those are amazing and same for erotic novels, I hope one day that the more high-brow museums will consider it art as well. Hey, if we got nude girls from 1800 maybe in 2050, we have nude art from the 1990 as well… So continue writing, people need fantasy lands to go to sometimes…
starry….starry night….paint your pallet…
crimson
and clover over
and over
I’m looking over
A Four leaf clover that
I’ve over looked before
I am looking forward to looking around tonight when I’m under my covers!
ooooh …. well … it’s tough to type and …. well you know…. but I hope you will comment! Share with me what you like and what you don’t like and why! it’s the only way to get better at my craft. Enjoy!
Holy Cats…Your site rocks! Reading your “But Who Am I?” I was moved to sit up and cheer. A kind of closet romance writer, this just seems too perfect, lol. I will definitely be back and explore. Oh, and breathe deeply!
(p.s. thanks for your comment at my corner of the blogosphere. Shadowplay isn’t for everyone, but then after visiting here, I can see you are a woman of refined tates).
Belle – welcome!! And I hope you will play int he sandbox often! from the shadows or not. I am pleased that reading my Who Am I had that effect on you! I thank you even more for lettign me know. Enjoy! and visit often.
I love that phrase ‘The vulgar dominates the genre’ so true & such a turn off
Isn’t it?? *sigh*
I still am uncertain as to why – women do it as much as men – that is what i found most surprising.
Breathnoah – Done! Don’t know what you’ll make of my suggestion.
E) Your cunt is your glory – but what I really want is your ass.
three or four leaves?
It all started because of a comic book. I was 12. My mother and step dad had a copy of Fanny Hill – in comic. It’s a collectors item now and i hope to get my hands on it! I understood sex. But with that book … I understood sexuality, sensualtiy and the power of sex both positive and not.
You may be on to something!! And thank you – I will keep writing. I have to.